Forgiveness - Ourselves and Others

Good morning family and friendsHope your weekend was nice and relaxingHope all mothers felt the love she deserves
I have tossed this subject in the closet butit is something we all need to find in our heart to doIt is a deep subject so it will probably be in parts asI work myself through this process
When we feel we have been betrayed by thosewe called "friends", we hurt in different waysI find myself feeling anger and resentment andwanting to hold on to those feelingsAs a Christian, I remember learning from pastorsand my dad what the Bible teaches on forgiveness.
I have to find a way to forgive others like Godforgives us. He loves us unconditional which is hardfor me to grasp at times. 
Holding on to the hurt and resentment causes meanxiety, restlessness, loss of enjoyment, fear of seeingthe one who caused the anger and spending time alone toavoid any chance of being reminded of the hurt.So, why do I hang on to the anger? I really don't know but I have to find a way to forgiveBible teaches if a person can't find a way to forgive thenthe heavenly father can't forgive you.I want to always please my heavenly father, so this is anarea in my life I need to really work on.
How do you forgive those who hurt you?
Have a great day and be nice to someone,Doesn't cost a thing!!!!!!!